Category Archives: perfect match

THE GIRLS YOU SHOULD BE MARRYING

Image

Earlier in the month, I wrote an article titled “The Girls Who Are Never Getting Married”. You may have read it; it continues to get an influx of negative comments to this day, as the only people that are offended are the ones that know it’s true. So many women were furious with the article, claiming that the man who wrote it was misogynistic and disgusting. My favorite comment was that he “has four girls buried under his crawl space.”

Well Elite Daily readers, I wrote that article, and I am a female. Surprised? Feeling stupid? I hope so. I wrote that article because I’m disgusted with the girls of my generation who use their sexuality to get ahead in life and disrespect themselves on a daily basis. I’m flattered that you think I’m a male chauvinist and a creep though. I may be a bitch, but I’m just being honest.
I could honestly not care less if your goal in life is to get married or not. If you choose not to, that’s your choice and I hope that it makes you happy. I wrote that article because those are the women I would hate to see my close guy friends or my brothers end up with. If any guy that I’m close to wants to pursue a long-term relationship, these are the women I hope they choose:
The 30-Year-Old With The Graduate School Degree

This girl took the initiative to further her education and wants to make something of herself career wise. She’s a hard worker and she chooses to be because of her own personal standards. She is independent and she is the perfect alpha woman. It’s one thing to go to a four-year university, graduate with a degree and get a successful job. Trust me, I commend anyone that does that and encourage all of you to do so.

The thing about a graduate of graduate school that intrigues me is that she knew that it would mean more work and less partying. Not many people are willing to pay ridiculous amounts of money to further their educations. I like a girl like this because you know that she’s smart, you know that she has drive and you know that she’ll keep you stimulated. She is the furthest thing away from that club whore you usually hang out with that is most likely blown out down there by now.

The Best Of Both Worlds

The perfect girl. She’s smart, she reads during her free time and she still watches sh*tty television. She loves to shop and to present herself well, but feels most comfortable with her feet up on the coffee table, drinking a few beers, watching the game with the guys. This girl can laugh at stupid, girly nonsense but can still take a joke when the guys she’s friends with try to bust her balls.

I want guys to end up with a girl like this because I feel like they’ll never be bored. They’ll get the sexiness and femininity that they crave along with a best friend, because relationships almost never work if you’re not friends with your significant other. My parents have been married for 25 years and still chase each other around the house and play tag and that’s because my mom is a down ass bitch who loves Led Zeppelin and stilettos. Oh sh*t, I called my mom a bitch, that’s offensive, right? Sorry, I’m not sorry.

The best of both worlds is truly what it means. It’s the girl that will pig out with you on burgers and hotdogs, but still be so hot about it. She may even know how to play Madden. This is the girl that will go and buy beer and steak for you and your friends during man night. There is nothing like being with a girl that is just down with everything.

The Girl Who’s Got Her Own

Just like the annoyingly catchy Ne-Yo song says, I want my guy friends to end up with a girl who’s completely independent. She wants you but she sure as hell doesn’t need you. She’s educated, she has a job, she pays her bills on time, buys all of her own sh*t, completely takes care of herself and is more than happy with her life. You want to go out with your guys? Cool, do that, she’ll call you tomorrow because she’ll be out doing her own thing.

A girl like this is an absolute keeper. She can be in a relationship, but she doesn’t need you to take care of her because she can take care of herself. What guy wouldn’t want this? It’s borderline terrifying when a girl absolutely needs you in her life to make her happy.

So Elite Daily, that’s who I would want my brothers or my good guy friends ending up with. I know what some of you are thinking, “girls like this don’t exist.” I hear it every day in these offices, but guess what, they do. They exist and I’d much rather that all of the men out there wait and find one, instead of wasting their time on a girl who doesn’t respect herself. Some may say these girls are unicorns, but I beg to differ, try looking in the right places and not the club you frequently visit.

By Elite:
Ally Batista is a preppy tomboy who loves all things football and fashion. She’s a housewife in training and is known as the highly opinionated, and sometimes rude, first woman of Elite Daily. Be prepared to always be caught off guard — http://elitedaily.com/dating/women-marrying/

 

LOOKING FOR YOUR PERFECT MATCH? JOIN OUR EXQUISITE DATABASE OF SINGLES FOR FREE

Sophisticated matchmaking

Sophisticated matchmaking

Join our ABSOLUTELY PRIVATE AND CONFIDENTIAL DATABASE.

Please create your confidential profile at my website. The registration is absolutely private and is free of charge. Other members cannot view your profile – only me. Don’t forget to upload your best photos. The more detailed your profile is, the better it will help me to understand you, what you are looking for and who might be a good match to you.

Your profile will never exposed to the public and vied by other members. All introductions are hand picked. The confidentiality of our clients is our top priority! Call us for a complimentary consultation – 206.683.0089

http://ow.ly/h9eqT

VALENTINE SUCCESS LOVE STORY

OUR NEW SUCCESS LOVE STORY

Don’t Miss Our Upcoming Valentine Party 2013

Give Love a Second Chance! RSVP: WWW.SEATTLEAMORE.COM

Believe it or not but our Valentime Party 2012 was a huge success and one couple that met at that party is getting married this summer!

Here is an email I have received today from a friend of a lucky man! (…Names of a happy couple are changed due to privacy)

Shahin Zanoozi

From: Shahin.Zonoozi

Subject: LOVE STORY of Sarah and James
Date: January 25, 2013 11:04:58 AM PST
To: SOPHIA ANDREEVA

It was Valentines day and my best friend James called me and said there is a party at the Bellevue Suite that beautiful Sophia is hosting and if I would be interested in attending, I did.  After an hour at the bar we decided to order few drinks and meet two beautiful young ladies who were friends. One of the ladies was a stunning and intelligent Persian girl whom I connected since we speak the same language. Soon I realized she is a very successful, young, ambitious, and deserving woman.  My best friend, James seemed to be closer in age to her and far more established than I so I simply introduced them both together and backed off. In a matter of an hour they simply clicked, they were speaking so intently as if no one else existed.  They were laughing, smiling and listening to each other.  I just knew it somehow. After that they left to go somewhere quieter to speak and next thing I know They are traveling around the world together and at final destination, Cabo James closes a beach for her and proposes. They are getting married this summer all thanks to the opportunity Sophia brought with her Valentines day party. I am thankful for my best friends who are such a beautiful couple.

SEE PHOTOS FROM THE PARTY 2012:
GALLERY #1  GALLERY #2

SOUL MATES FOR LIFE TIME OR NOT?

ImageSoul mates are not always with us for a life time… 

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. 

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave. 

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life.” 

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

THE IMPORTANCE OF POLISHED PROFILE IN YOUR SEARCH FOR MR. OR MS. RIGHT

Bachelorette of Sophisticated Matchmaking

Bachelorette of Sophisticated Matchmaking

I received this email tonight from one of my certified database members. This lady had an initial interview and a coaching session with me about a month ago, right before the holidays, and brought me a few candid photos, pretty photos but not professional, poor quality, low resulution and not really representing her at her best. I suggested to update the profile and to get new professional photos. She was actually open to it and was very prompt to follow all the instructions. Withing a month I have set her up with a man that was a perfect match to her and everything she was looking for. Wishing them both much love and a lasting relationship.

“When I shared a pot of tea with Sophia in her home overlooking Lake Washington, I realized I had truly found an alliance in my quest to find “the one”. It was easy for me to proceed with her plan which included professional photos. Along with the photos, the experience of writing my bio brought my proactive stance and quest to life. Preparing for the shoot was a thoughtful and fun process that took some time and energy prior to and the day of the shoot, however it was so worth it. Within a week of Sophia posting my profile with my photos, a tall, dark and handsome (not kidding!) gentleman asked for an introduction. That same gentleman had previously seen my snapshots on the database and did not express an interest in meeting me! A thoughtful and authentic bio and professional pictures are an integral part of this process. Snapshots can never accomplish what the professional photograph can. The difference is in the lens and the person behind it.” 

~ Bacherette 2013-L (view more photos of her HERE)

%d bloggers like this: